A Word About Worry

August 18, 2014

I just Googled “healthy results from worry” and found that there were none. Try it.worry


Quote of the Day For Monday – Worry

November 12, 2012

Worry divides the mind.  – Max Lucado –

I see the point made by Lucado, one of my favorite writers of all time.  The real question is, I think, what does worry do to our soul?  As I view it, it wounds the soul . . . perhaps the bigger tragedy of the two.

You Are Free!

July 23, 2012

Those words may seem unrealistic . . . overly optimistic . . . childish . . . completely outside the realm of reality . . . but they are true.  When human sin took our freedom away from us and we hid from the only chance we had at regaining it – repentance and a relationship with God, He was compassionate and loving and showed this to us by sending us His Son who made the ultimate sacrifice for us.  Our freedom is within us and has been won for us by Jesus Christ.  In living in His great love and accepting Him as our Lord and Savior, that personal relationship breaks the chains of bondage that we placed around our true selves and the eyes of our hearts can then see that the door is not closed and locked.  We are indeed free!  My internet access has been down for days and is supposed to be down right now.  I’m believing that the reason I am able to check my email and be online just now is to read the following quote which I was just sent and am sharing with all of you:

Free your heart from hatred — forgive. Free your mind from worries — most never happen. Live simply and appreciate what you have. Give more. Expect less.

– Stephen Covey –

Jesus died on the cross convicted of our sin.  Forgiveness is hard.  We or I tend to feel so hurt.  I don’t like it, and nor does anyone else.  It’s hard to feel the pain and realize I have to also forgive.  “They” did hurt me.  “They” willfully chose to.  I am a victim, so why should I forgive?  God wants to carry the heavy stuff for us as a shepherd carries the burdens for the sheep in his care, so our Lord God wishes to simplify things in our own lives.  In choosing not to forgive, we are carrying a heavy load which we are so weighted down with that we cannot live into the real and amazing life He has for us.  I know this because I carry pain just as all of you have done at some point.  In forgiving I am not saying “what you did is okay” but only saying “I release this to your loving hands, Lord God.  The life you have for me and my personal walk with you is so much more important to me than this load that’s holding me back.”  The sheep in this world can’t carry their own load.  What a mess life would be without the shepherd.  They’d get into dangerous situations, find no rest, likely be hungry and unable to find food or drink.  What a worrisome life.  But, the shepherd takes it on himself and leads, protects, provides food, drink, and rest.  The sheep trust him, know his presence and his voice, and live in the love and care of a shepherd . . . . free!

In our Lord God, we can be like those sheep and He is our Shepherd.  In releasing our burdens, our worries, our hurts to Him, we are free to live a much simpler life.  The path will not always be green pastures and the waters will not always be still, but we will never be lost for His crook is right with us and when we stray, He will draw us near.  He will guide us through the uneven slopes.  He will feed us and meet all of our needs.  We truly are free – for the freedom we seek is within us.  How can we find it?  He is the Way!

Trust Won the Battle Over Worry 164 to 15!

July 20, 2011

I had a hunch and did some research to check it out.  Worry seems to come first over trust in my life all too often and I’ve seen that I’m not the only one with this challenge.  As the title reveals, trust is and should always be the winner of this battle.  The numbers shown in my title here represent the number of verses in the NIV Bible in which the word trust and the word worry are used.  Seems God knew we’d have trouble with trust and so He had a lot written about it to encourage us.  Lately I’ve been thinking I was getting better at this.  Until the other day . . . yesterday. 

At my church a class is being offered about our emotions and how they can really get in our way and have an effect on our spiritual growth.  Not only that, but the author discovered that our emotional battle also comes from life patterns going back a couple of generations at least.  Wow.  Okay, I was bummed out years ago when I learned what original sin was and can recall being a child and thinking “not MY FAULT Adam and Eve ate that stupid apple.”    I’m a big girl now and I’m over the apple.  Promise.  I get it.  We’re cool.  We’re forgiven.  It’s all good.  So, now I find my emotions fight against me spiritually (I get that) and not only mine but the “baggage” Mom and Dad, Nana, Grampy . . . . 2 or 3 generations of family . . . it’s all affecting me and the approach I have taken along my journey?  Yikes.

So, I studied the first 4 chapters in my book for the class.  Chapter 4 was great.  It was kinda “what I want to be when I grow up” and focused on how much better our journey will be when we understand our feelings, know what ancestral triggers are involved, and therefore not find our spiritual journey halted by them.  Great.  Loved it.  Then I peeked ahead at tomorrow’s topic.  The homework for that one?  Digging deep and finding the baggage I’ve got buried in me.  What I brought on myself, what my folks and their folks brought on themselves and passed on to the next generation . . . a long and not very fun look back at all the “I didn’t like it when she said that” and “It hurt me when he did that” and wonder of wonders . . . most of what was said and done, it would seem, was while completely unaware.  So, my homework was to dig through past hurts and disappointments and find out why I feel and react the way I do so that knowing why can lead to healing and growing and dealing with things in strength and awareness of what’s “real.”  No more denial.  Feelings are real and causes are real and we don’t have to be stopped on our journey!  BUT . . .  I did NOT want to deal with chapter 5.  NO, NO, NO!!!

I kinda figured if I wasn’t aware of all this, it must not be hurting me TOO much.  I didn’t want to go digging.  I’d had a good few days.  The challenges in life weren’t scaring me too much, and there was hope for a future.  The words of Jeremiah 29:11 have been in my heart steadily and so I know the Lord has a plan for my life.  I know it’s one which will help me, not harm me – one which will prosper me and give me hope and a future.  I know this.  I’ve been using those encouraging words like a mantra for a long long time.  Why let a little chapter on looking back to move ahead stop me?  But I kept putting off reading it and worrying about how hurtful it would be to go digging.  Then I couldn’t put it off anymore and prayed about it. 

What a notion.  I know better.  Why did I worry for so long.  Gripe and put off the necessary step toward growth?  Why didn’t I pray about it sooner.  So I did pray.  I asked the Holy Spirit to fill me and to open my heart, my eyes, and my ears to what I was meant to understand . . . and to help me to keep the joy of the Lord in my heart in the process.  Know what?  He answered my prayer.  Just as He always does.  It was the best chapter yet!  The generations of hurts and stumbling through life and the patterns that all families have which control us if we let them . . .  it all makes sense.  Know what else?  When you understand what’s going on it doesn’t scare you or hurt you.   You heal.  Facing the challenges in life, whether it’s chapter 5 or something else . . . is much better than all the avoidance and worry, and pray for help people.  He is waiting with open arms and all we have to do is reach for Him.   Please reach for Him!  Trust me on this.  Better yet, trust Him!!!

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